The wedding rings exchange

The exchange of wedding rings or wedding bands during the ceremony is one of the most symbolic and emotional moments of a wedding. When planning a wedding, many questions arise: when is the rings exchange, who is the rings’ keeper, in witch finger does it goes, how to carry the rings to the altar…?

We solve your doubts about the rings exchange and offer some tips on choosing your wedding bands:

What are the wedding rings?

Wedding rings are the rings exchanged by the couple during the wedding ceremony.

They symbolize marital union, love, and commitment. Their circular shape represents infinite love. Additionally, the rings signify the couple’s commitment to the world.

Made of precious metals, the rings also symbolize the strength and durability of the relationship.

The exchange of rings is a beautiful tradition always done in both civil and religious ceremonies.

When is made the rings exchange during the ceremony?

The rings exchange typically occurs towards the end of the ceremony, after the wedding vows  and “I do”. This is followed by the couple’s presentation, the kiss, the signing, and the couple’s exit with the throwing of petals.

The rings moment comprises two parts:

• The giving of the rings by the wedding rings’ keeper
• The exchange of the wedding rings

The giving of the rings:

Who is the rings’ keeper?

Traditionally, the best man safeguards and gives the wedding rings during the ceremony to the couple. However, it is common that a child, or someone significant to the couple (such as grandparents, mother, sister, etc.), brings the rings to the altar. The key is that the person should be special to you.

If you are dog lovers and want your pet to be part of the wedding, you can have your dog deliver the rings, possibly guided by a child or guest.

After the marriage vows and consent, the officiant usually calls the child or person responsible for the rings (rings’ keeper). This person walks down the ceremony aisle with background music and hands the rings to the couple or the officiant. Alternatively, they may give the rings directly from their seat.

How to carry the rings to the altar?

To carry the rings to the altar, it is essential to choose a ring bearer that is easy to handle and visually appealing.

Options include a traditional cushion with a ribbon, a wicker basket, a wooden slab decorated with flowers, an embroidered tapestry, a personalized box, etc. It is a good idea to seek advice from your jeweler or decorator.

The exchange of the wedding rings:

Once the rings are at the altar, it is time for the exchange of wedding bands.

The officiant typically provides a brief explanation of the rings’ symbolism, followed by the exchange phrase that the couple repeats before placing the rings on each other.

An example of an exchange phrase could be:

“Partner’s name (Example: Maria), I place this ring on your finger as a sign and promise of my love and fidelity.”

After exchanging rings, the officiant usually says a few words, declares the couple married, and invites them to kiss (you may kiss!).

Where to wear the wedding ring?

In Spain, the wedding ring is typically worn on the ring finger of the right hand, but in some regions (Catalonia and Valencia), it is customary to wear it on the left hand. This may vary by country, for example in the UK and USA is on the left hand. Ultimately, it is entirely up to you to wear the rings on the hand or finger that feels most comfortable, or even on a necklace.

Traditionally, the wedding ring is worn on the ring finger because it is believed that a vein runs directly from this finger to the heart, symbolizing eternal love and union.

Typically, no other ring is worn during the ceremony, but you can wear the engagement ring on the opposite hand or place both rings on the same finger. There are many options!

How to choose the wedding rings?

There are several aspects to consider when choosing wedding rings. Here are our tips for choosing them:

Set a budget

The first step is to set an approximate budget. Based on your budget, you can start searching for the ideal rings. There are many options for all tastes and budgets.

Choose the design, material, and style

Once the budget is set, start exploring different options at various jewelry stores or brands. We recommend checking Instagram or the jeweler’s website beforehand to see their style and prices. Consider the material (white gold, yellow gold, silver, etc.), thickness, details (with or without stones, plain, textured, etc.). Another option is to create a custom design with an artisan jeweler.

Get the right size

After choosing the design and features, it’s time to select the size. Rings come in various sizes. It is best to try on the ring to ensure it fits perfectly and avoid last-minute surprises.

Decide the inscription

Most wedding bands have an inscription inside, such as the couple’s names and wedding date. You can opt for this option or choose a special phrase for you.

Order the rings in advance

Finally, we recommend ordering your wedding rings well in advance, at least three months before the wedding, to ensure you find the perfect model and have it personalized with your inscription.

We hope to have answered all your questions about the wedding ring exchange, ensuring it is a unique and special moment.